We understand that sometimes people experiment with substances and no amount of condemnation will stop this entirely. Our primary focus is your wellbeing and making sure that you are safe. Taking drugs always carries a risk and can potentially be harmful.
If you do choose to take drugs please bear in mind the following points:
- Start low, go slow - Start with a small dose & wait until you’ve been feeling the effects for at least 2 hours before redosing. Remember drugs are becoming more & more potent & are not instantaneous, so resist the urge to re-dose too quickly.
- Avoid mixing drugs - Avoid mixing different drugs, especially with alcohol. Drugs could react together in a bad way & produce long-term health consequences. This is also a way to overdose.
- Stay hydrated with non-alcoholic drinks - Remember to sip non-alcohol drinks throughout the evening, but don’t drink more than a pint an hour.
- There are NO set doses - Age, weight, gender, ethnic background & even how tired you are can play a part in drug metabolism. Your friend’s dose may not be the right one for you.
- Avoid using drugs when depressed or anxious - Taking drugs can make these feelings worse, either during the drug taking itself or as an effect of the comedown.
- Don't be afraid to seek help - Do seek help from staff or emergency services and be honest about what drugs you have taken. If your friend is unwell, stay with them until help comes.
You can find all this information in a helpful guide.
Alcohol and Relationships
Drinking alcohol affects the brain, reducing the ability to think straight, act rationally and causing lower inhibitions. This can temporarily make us feel more confident and assume we’re fun, but these lower inhibitions can make a person say or do something which they later come to regret. These regrets will not only affect the person drinking but those who they interact with.
Alcohol can often be used as an excuse for negative behaviour, and exacerbate arguments, especially in romantic relationships and friendships. Frequent arguments can take a toll on any form of relationship, leading to breakups and upsetting situations. If alcohol is affecting your relationship or friendship with someone then the best time to talk about it is when everyone involved is sober.
Tips on how to stop alcohol affecting your relationships:
- Go Alcohol Free: the best nights out, or evenings in, don’t have to include alcohol. You can bond over a romantic film or try alcohol-free cocktails.
- Stay within the low risk guidelines: if you do decide to drink alcohol, stay within the UK chief medical officers’ (CMO) low risk drinking guidelines by not regularly drinking more than 14 units a week and having several drink-free days.
- Eat a meal: food slows down the rate your body absorbs alcohol, so if you do choose to drink, eat before and while you are drinking
- Talk it out sober: if something is worrying you, don’t wait until you’ve had too much to drink to talk about it. Instead, discuss any problems with your partner when you’re both sober
- Alternate your alcohol drinks – swap between rounds with a soft drink or water to help you drink less alcohol in a session